Whether you are in the USA, UK, Australia or pretty much anywhere else in the world, in this post I will explain my online methods of finding local women for sex near you.
A solution that works for me and works for most populated enough locations (most cities) are legit, large-scale hookup sites.
If you want no strings attached, casual sex, and fun, I can’t guarantee that you’ll find sex tonight. Although, it does happen on these sites a lot.
Anyway, it’s very possible to find these women sooner or later, after putting in some effort.
Or if you are looking for a local, independent escort, you can find those the quickest, and this is even the preferred method for finding paid sex nowadays.
The point is open discussion, so you can discuss the terms of your meeting, get to know each other, and decide what you are going to do/not do.
Thus, there are no unwanted surprises.
So this is how I’ve found girls for sex.
The site I use is the AFF network.
They’ve got an open free sign-up; just go to this link.
I am on there simply because it’s the largest. With more users, there is a greater likelihood of finding someone who’s your style in your local area.
And you know it’s legit.
I’m not saying you don’t have to be careful, like on all dating sites. But with some experience, you should be able to pick up any hint of insincere or disingenuous behavior.
This is important because these sites are about building trust, especially for women. Because they don’t just want your dick, they want trustworthy person, even if you are meeting up just casually.
So, if you DM someone without being honest or if someone is dishonest to you, it’s not going to work. You may go for it out of desperation, but leave it and go to the next profile. This is the largest hook-up site on the internet, so there should be enough profiles to find a real match, that actually shares your interests and passion in sex.
Once you click with someone, and someone is open to you and talks about everything, like how they ended up on AFF, problems with their sex life, their dreams and wants, etc., you can have much better sex and get much better girls, for that matter.
I prefer the “hot mom” types.
They are experienced, know what they want, and are willing to try out a lot of stuff. They’re also much easier to communicate with — and I think this is universal in the US, UK, etc.
The fewer games you have in a relationship, the better; we all need sex, including women, who probably need it even more than us men.
Once they find out that they can trust you and talk about it with you, which didn’t work out in their previous relationship/marriage, you might be in for an amazing FWB.
While some users prefer a one night thing, there are many that are in it for the long term so that the sex can get better and better. Never have I met anyone in my local area though, who would be into a relationship or willing to commit to a single partner. That is the name of the game on these sites.
Free your mind and enjoy — my two cents.
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